Why Women Cheat

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7. Boredom. Bored women may seek an escape from the mundane. Cheating may be viewed as a way to add some excitement into her life. The thrill of doing something wrong or of potentially getting caught.

8. Feeling unattractive to her partner.  If another guy comes along and starts telling her how beautiful she is and how special she, she may start to feel better around him than she feels around her partner. This is especially dangerous because those feelings will cause her to develop an attachment to the other man.

9. Low self-esteem.  In general sex is a drug; it makes us feel good.  It also makes many of us feel desirable which gives us a false sense of self-esteem. Plenty of women will seek out sex, and lots of it, from many partners as a form of validation. This sense of worth and value is short lived and thus these women are caught continually seeking it out.

10. Some women cheat as sort of an exit strategy.  She doesn’t want to break up with you verbally so behaviorally she goes out and cheats on you so you break up with her. It’s a coward’s way out but, in her eyes, it’s a way out nonetheless.

How to keep her faithful

Simply be there for her emotionally.  This simple solution has the potential to prevent nearly half of the cases of female infidelity. Easy ways to show her you are there for her emotionally can be simply hearing her out and listening to her problems. Do not try to solve her problems but rather just listen to them – maybe even hold her.  You can ask her if there is anything that you can do to help but try to avoid jumping in with suggestions. Many times men jump in and start offering suggestions and the woman feels like she is not being heard. Another thing you can do is give her plenty of attention. Never give other women sexual attention - women are generally very jealous and resentful when it comes to this. It is very important that she feels like she is the primary woman in your life. This is critical to keeping her faithful.


About Dr. Laino
Dr. Debra Laino DHS, M.ED, MS holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco, CA, a Masters Degree in Education from Widener University in Chester, PA, and a Masters Degree in Psychology from Capella University in Minneapolis, MN. She has over ten years of professional experience.Dr. Debra Laino is Board Certified by the American College of Sexologists and Diplomate of The American Board of Sexology.  In addition, Dr. Debra Laino is also a member of AASECT (American Association for Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists), APA (American Psychological Association), DCA (Delaware Counseling Association), The American College of Sexologists and The American Board of Sexology.

 

 

 

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 User Comments:

Male

Jul 27, 2010 11:14 PM

Looking forward to the next articles:
Why Women Kill
Why Women Steal
Why Women Lie
Glad to know it's OK for women to commit crimes. Cause men get in a heap of trouble for cheating, like losing their kids, home, and earnings. So, women, keep on cheating and we'll see you in hell!

rod

Jul 16, 2010 9:00 PM

Reason for cheating is that they are not having their emotional needs met.??? fasinating reason indeed. Perhaps males can use the same excuse as well.

Onefemale

Mar 7, 2010 11:21 PM

I think calling women names who do this is easy to do. If you were cheated on, how about fessing up to maybe you weren't the man you could have been in the relationship. Most women don't leave easily.

Uncle Freddie

Mar 5, 2010 9:09 AM

Smithy, get real...She cheated on you because she's a hoe OR you didn't do something right. If you're are a decent person, you should be okay either way.

attentive guest

Feb 10, 2010 5:17 AM

@vandeep - i think we do. but i dont think making ourselves less easy will be enjoyable

vandeep

Feb 8, 2010 9:02 PM

3. Because they can. maybe us men make ourselves too easy?

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