Why Women Cheat

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7. Boredom. Bored women may seek an escape from the mundane. Cheating may be viewed as a way to add some excitement into her life. The thrill of doing something wrong or of potentially getting caught.

8. Feeling unattractive to her partner. If another guy comes along and starts telling her how beautiful she is and how special she, she may start to feel better around him than she feels around her partner. This is especially dangerous because those feelings will cause her to develop an attachment to the other man.

9. Low self-esteem. In general sex is a drug; it makes us feel good. It also makes many of us feel desirable which gives us a false sense of self-esteem. Plenty of women will seek out sex, and lots of it, from many partners as a form of validation. This sense of worth and value is short lived and thus these women are caught continually seeking it out.

10. Some women cheat as sort of an exit strategy. She doesn't want to break up with you verbally so behaviorally she goes out and cheats on you so you break up with her. It's a coward's way out but, in her eyes, it's a way out nonetheless.

How to keep her faithful

Simply be there for her emotionally. This simple solution has the potential to prevent nearly half of the cases of female infidelity. Easy ways to show her you are there for her emotionally can be simply hearing her out and listening to her problems. Do not try to solve her problems but rather just listen to them - maybe even hold her. You can ask her if there is anything that you can do to help but try to avoid jumping in with suggestions. Many times men jump in and start offering suggestions and the woman feels like she is not being heard. Another thing you can do is give her plenty of attention. Never give other women sexual attention - women are generally very jealous and resentful when it comes to this. It is very important that she feels like she is the primary woman in your life. This is critical to keeping her faithful.


About Dr. Laino
Dr. Debra Laino DHS, M.ED, MS holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco, CA, a Masters Degree in Education from Widener University in Chester, PA, and a Masters Degree in Psychology from Capella University in Minneapolis, MN. She has over ten years of professional experience.Dr. Debra Laino is Board Certified by the American College of Sexologists and Diplomate of The American Board of Sexology. In addition, Dr. Debra Laino is also a member of AASECT (American Association for Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists), APA (American Psychological Association), DCA (Delaware Counseling Association), The American College of Sexologists and The American Board of Sexology.

 

 

 

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 User Comments:

Jon

Nov 7, 2011 5:43 PM

Interesting....
Not sure if I agree but interesting...

lillian

Oct 24, 2011 2:39 PM

Bad Men are the reasons goodwomen behave bad you do laundry and fines condoms in his jeans and he is married they say we nag if we ask them where they were the whole day. Can you believe they freaken believe we should be calm at home while they are being sixteen again with teenagers. No divorcing ladies get yourselve a hunk too keep you busy till he decides to come home

Steve

Sep 27, 2011 8:08 PM

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me...She constantly talks about her needs not being met...???

Larry

Aug 15, 2011 3:23 PM

Women and men cheat for so many different reasons-not justifying it but just saying...

franko

Aug 15, 2011 2:09 PM

the women that cheat are filthy low life pigs. my first wife cheated on me and i was a very good husband. these type of women that are out there need so many men at one time to please them instead of just being with one.then again these women are mentally disturbed, and are garbage anyway.

Mike

Jul 19, 2011 5:45 PM

I like this writer!!

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