Score A Threesome

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Ah, the threesome. It is undoubtedly the ultimate in male achievement - and you want to know how to get one? Well, to be fair we need to warn you that it won't be easy to achieve if you are the instigator. In most cases, a successful threesome is accomplished when your girl/girlfriend/wife/partner/etc. is the instigator and you are just some lucky bastard at the right place at the right time with the right girl. In a 2005 study by Mosher and colleagues, it was found that approximately 11% of women report having had some sort of sexual experience with another woman in their lifetime. Roughly speaking, that means only 1 out of every ten girls might be comfortable with a MFF threesome. So if she hasn't brought it up already or suggested something to make you think she is comfortable with pursuing one, then the odds are against you that she will want to take part in a threesome (she's part of the other 9 out of 10). But don't worry, there are things you can look for to determine whether or not you should go for it and there are some things you can do to improve your chances of securing it.

First up, evaluate her.

Take a minute and really evaluate her. Is she a prude, does she have an history of being adventurous or do you not know? What has she said or done that would make you think she would be okay with this? How does she talk about other women? How does she regard them? These are all questions you should try to answer when you evaluate her. If she has a prudish history then this really isn't the type of thing you would want to involve her in so you better just keep your mouth shut and avoid a potential fight. A lot of women get offended really easily so this really isn't the type of topic you can bring up with just any girl. On the other hand if she does have a relatively open sexual history and seems really open to alternative discussions then a threesome may very well be possible and bringing it up in a discussion might be okay. Remember if you are going to bring it up be very casual about it. Your'e not eager - heck you could care less about it - it's just conversation. If you can, try to get her to bring it up; that's even better.

Evaluate your relationship

What kind of relationship are you in with your girl? If she is just some fling or you're not too attached to her then whatever, worse case scenario the threesome results in you breaking up with a girl you don't really care about. But, if she really means something to you (a serious girlfriend, fiance or wife) then maybe you should keep the threesome as a strict fantasy. A threesome really can cause relationship problems. Women can get very jealous very easily, especially if the threesome doesn't play out to her expectations. Be prepared for this and make sure this is the type of thing your relationship can handle.

The Talk

Before anything can ever happen there has to be some sort of talk about it. Almost no threesomes occur spontaneously with no sort of preemptive talk about it. The conversation should be relaxed and casual but if can make it a fun and playful conversation - even better. Having an enjoyable or fun conversation is rewarding and reinforces the idea in her head; behavioral psychology illustrates these principles of associating desirable idea/principles or actions with pleasant stimulus in order to reinforce those ideas/principles or actions. This is what marketing experts do. Depending on your social engineering skills you may be able to get her to initiate the conversation with you, or you may just be really lucky and she will bring it up on her own. In either case you need to cement this idea in her head. Whenever she brings up other women, threesomes or experimenting you should reinforce those ideas by complimenting her, approving her ideas and generally smiling. Studies show these are very powerful secondary reinforcers. If you do this right (or often enough), her experimental behavior will ramp up and these ideas will become cemented.

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 User Comments:

Wedge

Jul 2, 2010 11:22 AM

If you have a woman who is willing and/or wanting a threesome your best and safest option is to visit a professionally run cathouse. Go to a professional. At a bar you are more likely to get a disease than if you take a trip to Nevada and pay a professional.
You also don't have any lingering jealousy problems. This goes for MFF or MMF.

nikki

Jun 2, 2010 1:24 AM

hi i need help on how to get a woman to join me and my fiance in a threesome. can anyone help me? thanks x

gary

May 14, 2010 3:03 AM

heather you are a dumb b*tch. of course this is the ultimate... i can spend 4 years and learn how to build a house... i can spend a lifetime and never learn how to get this

nikki

Apr 27, 2010 12:46 PM

anyone up for it?

nikki

Apr 26, 2010 3:45 PM

its for a bit of fun and no strings attached. we want to try out our fantasy to see if we like it.

nikki

Apr 26, 2010 3:35 PM

hi, me and my fiance for 3yrs are trying to find another woman to join us for a threesome on the 29th of may.

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